Etiquette & Manners

What is Regrets Only?

Regrets only is an RSVP style where guests respond only if they cannot attend, with no response assumed as acceptance.

Regrets only is a type of RSVP request where guests are asked to respond only if they will NOT be attending the event. If an invitation says "Regrets Only," the host assumes that anyone who doesn't respond will be attending. This approach reduces the number of responses hosts need to manage but carries the risk of inaccurate headcounts. Regrets only RSVPs are more common for casual events, open houses, or large gatherings where exact numbers are less critical. For formal events like weddings, traditional RSVPs requiring a response from all guests are preferred.

Examples

  • 1"RSVP: Regrets Only to 555-1234"
  • 2"Please respond only if you cannot attend"
  • 3"Regrets only by November 1st"

Related Terms

Create Your Invitation with Invitify

Now that you understand regrets only, put your knowledge to use! Create beautiful, professional invitations in minutes with our AI-powered platform.

Start Creating - It's Free